Rose Markotic

Coaching, not therapy

Rose Markotic provides skills-based coaching and educational services from Croatia (EU). She is not a registered psychologist or psychotherapist in any country, and does not provide regulated psychological services, psychotherapy, counseling, or medical care. Coaching is not a substitute for therapy or medical treatment.

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In Portugal

Anxiety coaching for English-speaking expats in Portugal.

If you moved to Lisbon, Porto, Cascais, or the Algarve on a D7, D8, or remote-work visa — and the anxiety came with the move — this is what skills-based coaching for that situation looks like.

The Portugal expat layer

The story doesn’t end at "you moved to Lisbon."

Most Portugal-expat content stops at the move story. The specific stressors of being settled here — eighteen months in, D7 renewal looming, AIMA appointments stuck in queue, the Portuguese tax NHR/IFICI changes you didn’t budget for — don’t make it into the listicles.

That’s where the actual anxiety lives. Not the magazine version of expat life — the version where you’ve been here long enough that you’re responsible for the paperwork yourself, the honeymoon city has become regular life, and the question of whether to stay or move on is sitting in the back of your head.

Coaching here is structured around that layer. Concrete skills for the visa-bureaucracy stress, the social-isolation patterns, the partnership conversations that nomadic life puts off, and the decision-fatigue cost of having the choice of where to be next.

By neighborhood

The shape of expat life varies by city.

Lisbon expat life isn’t Porto expat life isn’t Cascais expat life. Where you landed shapes what you’re dealing with.

Lisbon

The largest English-speaking expat scene in Portugal. Concentrated in Príncipe Real, Santos, Campo de Ourique, and increasingly Alvalade as Príncipe rents climb. Clients here often struggle with the gap between Lisbon’s social density and the surprising loneliness of being in it without local context.

Porto

Smaller English-speaking community than Lisbon, more tied to remote-work and creative industries. Cedofeita, Foz, and Bonfim hold the bulk of expat life. Common pattern: clients who moved here from Lisbon to escape Lisbon's grind, then found the smaller scale brought a different kind of isolation.

Cascais

More polished, more international-school, more family-stage expat. Often clients arriving with significant resources but new to navigating Portuguese bureaucracy themselves — and the gap between the relocation-package version and the reality is its own stressor.

Algarve (Lagos, Tavira, Faro)

Sunbelt expat scene with two clear groups: digital nomads in their thirties living seasonally, and older retirees. The work with the nomad group looks more like the digital-nomads page; the retiree group is rarely a coaching client and usually better-served by other resources.

Three patterns

What I see most often in Portugal clients.

  • 1. AIMA + paperwork stress that bleeds into everything.The AIMA backlog is real. The appointments are months out. Renewals get pushed past expiry. The cognitive load of carrying that uncertainty colors weeks. The skill is a bounded paperwork-day practice plus a tool for the catastrophizing loop the waiting triggers.
  • 2. The honeymoon-is-over confusion.First eight months: pastel buildings, Bairro Alto nights, the Tagus light. Months 9–18: the same city but now the magic dimmed and you don’t know if that’s a problem with the city or with you. The skill is calibrating that question without prematurely solving it via another move.
  • 3. Partnership strain under expat life.One of you wanted the move more than the other. Or you both wanted it and now you’re renegotiating what life looks like inside it. Communication skills for the specific pressures: visa-decision conversations, splitting the bureaucratic load, the "do we leave?" question that nobody wants to be the one to raise.

Practical

For Portugal-based clients specifically.

  • Sessions in English, online. I don’t work in Portuguese. If you need Portuguese-language coaching, I can refer you to colleagues.
  • Time zones work cleanly. Lisbon (WET) is one hour behind my CET. Morning and afternoon sessions both fit without forcing odd hours on anyone.
  • Invoices your tax accountant or employer can use. Every payment comes with an official, tax-authority-verified invoice from a registered EU business.
  • Final prices. €122–€150 per 50-min session in a package, €180 on demand — the posted price is what you pay. Nothing is added at checkout. Not ready for a package? Start with the 90-minute intake on its own — €270, credited in full toward any package if you continue within 30 days.
  • Not a healthcare provider. Coaching is non-clinical. If you need clinical care in Portugal, your GP via the SNS is the standard starting point, or the Ordem dos Psicólogos directory (ordemdospsicologos.pt) for a Portuguese-registered psychologist.

Frequently asked

Common questions

Can you help with my AIMA / SEF / NIF / visa stress specifically?
Not with the paperwork itself — that's an immigration lawyer or relocation agency. With the stress around the paperwork — yes. The dread, the catastrophizing, the way it bleeds into other parts of life, the avoidance pattern. We work the emotional load; you (or a lawyer) work the actual file.
I just got here. Is it too early to start coaching?
No — pre-move and first-three-months are often the best times to install the skills before the patterns calcify. The 'wait until you're settled' instinct is sometimes the anxious mind delaying useful work.
I've been in Portugal for years. Is it too late?
Not at all. Clients who've been here 5+ years often come in for different reasons — usually the question of where to be next, or a relationship/career fork that the long expat life has surfaced. Different stage, same skills work.
Do you have other Portugal-based clients?
Yes — Portugal is one of the practice's primary markets. Specific neighborhoods vary by season (Algarve picks up in spring, Lisbon is steady year-round). I'll never name individual clients but you're not the only one of your situation in the practice.
What about Portuguese clinical care?
If you need clinical care, the SNS is free for residents and accessible via your GP referral. For private clinicians, the Ordem dos Psicólogos Portugueses (ordemdospsicologos.pt) maintains a directory of Portuguese-registered psychologists. English-speaking clinicians exist in Lisbon and Porto particularly. Coaching is not a substitute for clinical care.

Next step

Twenty minutes to see if this fits.

Free, no card, online. Whether you’re in Lisbon, Porto, the Algarve, or anywhere in between — the Discovery Call sorts whether this is the right work for you.

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